FURTHER TO THE ENDLESS DEBATE ON PORN AND RAPE
I mean seriously, how difficult is it to answer this: -
Keeping your values and morale, is porn right or wrong? Yes or No?
Those who have answered with a No and wants to prove their point, read further. This is when a debate or an e-argument takes place. Honestly, I hate arguments since there is no reasoning; you say things just to win over a topic and get maximum likes!
Once again, I am just referring to one among the many reasons to rape and other associated problems due to porn.
Once again, I am just referring to one among the many reasons to rape and other associated problems due to porn.
I would like to write down certain things I have understood. These are very random and not in any order. I write as they come to my mind.
"Pornography is not for people who think it's for real. It's fantasy and it's entertainment," she said. (Who said? Sunny Leone said)
Ok, so after you have viewed this fantasy world, how many weaklings for real have climaxed or were desperate to make love right away? A fantasy which was a cause that turned out for a real effect to take place.
Your fantasy world disturbs the mind of a few innocent people who does no harm to anyone outside. He/She begins to feed their eyes and mind which are fantasy as you say. Involuntarily or voluntarily these visuals keep running in their mind and a desire lingers to mimic or enact. Failure to reach this results in dissatisfaction, difficulties with sex life, emotional disorders etc.
Also, if you say this is Fantasy & Entertainment and not real, this fantasy world has an endless, maximum number of viewers. I should assume that they are not leading a real life but are wanting to feed themselves with more fantasy and entertainment.
You tempt a child with chocolate and you know what happens.
Anyways, back to "mature" talks, just a video that came to my mind at the moment. I guess the first 4-5 mins should suffice to know what happens to your brain when you are tempted: -
Hope you got some insight from that!
Moving on...
"It's complete nonsense to blame rape on adult material out there. Education starts at home. It's mums and dads sitting with their children and teaching them what is right and wrong" she said. (Again Who said? Sunny Leone said)
I really am not sure whether the ones reading this felt offended or guilty that their mums and dads did not teach them what is right and wrong.
Anyways, while moms and dads taught to their best with definite limitations, social influence broke all limits and brought temptation to hit the brain - spot on!
On few comments I hear very often,
"We watch porn but we do not go about raping women. So porn does not lead to rape. Many play video games. This has not led to any crimes"
- If you say it has nothing to do with rape or has not increased rape cases... porn has never decreased sexual crimes either! Porn has potentially influenced rape to a unimaginable degree, period! As for video games, today... I fail to see kids play outdoors, they are more content having a virtual competitor and play online with the control just at their fingertips!
"Rape existed before porn came into existence. It sounds like it is more today since women are voicing out when compared to earlier days"
- I give admiration and credits to women voicing out. I give sympathy for those voicing out FOR porn! Once again, porn has potentially influenced rape to a unimaginable degree, period!
"Blame it on alcohol"
- Alcohol and porn makes one's mentality go totally derailed. Self control is not for all. It calls for an extra bone to have your own self esteem. The weaklings are the ones promoting this billion dollar industry. Billions of viewers, billions of weaklings! tsk tsk!!!
Is not promoting sex good?
- Promoting sex as an educational content is good. Promoting fantasy as a form of entertainment is definitely not. Again, porn has potentially influenced rape to a unimaginable degree. If you have self control, it need not be the same for another group of people who are mentally ill. So, stop being excessively selfish, you self controlled people.
There are endless defensive arguments on this topic. Rest to be continued in my next blog.
Till then, have a look at these random statistics: -
http://internet-filter-review.toptenreviews.com/internet-pornography-statistics.html
http://www.techaddiction.ca/files/porn-addiction-statistics.jpg
